“Don’t tell anyone, but I have a secret… I can hardly bring myself to say it because I really don’t want anyone to know, but there’s something wrong with me.
No one knows, in fact people look at me and think “Wow! Look at her, she has got it all going on”, but underneath, if they really knew, they wouldn’t think like that about me.
I’m going to tell you now… deep breath.
I’m not perfect.
Stop it! I know, I’m not supposed to be and there’s that old saying about striving for perfection, and never being happy but… it’s not really perfection that I seek. I just want to be happy, satisfied, sorted.
I’m just trying to be a better person all the time, trying to be nice, be calm, be funny, be interesting… I’m just trying so hard to be the best person I can be.
But I feel ill. I feel like I’m a bit of a wreck. I’m not really coping with very much at all, I can do the basics, but if anyone really knew what an incapable loser I am, if anyone could really see: I’d die.
No not literally, but I feel so ashamed that I’m not coping, not living really, I feel like an empty shell. Sometimes I wonder what the point of it all is.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me.
Am I depressed? Maybe, but I don’t feel like this all the time. Am I anxious – YES, big time, but I don’t really know what it’s about, I feel worried.
I worry about the future, that this is as good as it gets, and that I have to just come to terms with my own mediocrity.
But, I want so much more for my life, I have big ambition… but I just feel so stuck at the moment, like I’m wading through treacle.
I don’t know what to do.
I feel crippled under the weight of decision-making.
I’ve tried everything: changing my diet, taking supplements, exercise, energy healing, physical therapy. The GP says maybe antidepressants, but I can’t even make a decision about that – I don’t think I need them.
I’m so tried, worn out. Overthinking. My head aches, my body aches.
Oh god, please don’t tell anyone. I’m weird aren’t I? I’m beyond help aren’t I?
I’m scared. I want life to be different but I’m scared, don’t know what to do and if I did, I’d worry that I’d get it wrong.”
There is an answer.
I’ve had this conversation, or a version of it so many times now. This is the conversation that many of my clients come to me with.
Sometimes they will say: and the reason I feel like this is because something happened to me. It’s a known trauma response.
And sometimes they have absolutely no idea.
By the time they talk to me, they’ve usually been feeling like this for a good while, and I really am the last resort!
I work with women who look like they have it all, and I help them to really feel like they do. What nearly all of my clients have in common is that they don’t want anyone to know, they are definitely trying to put on a good front! And it is something deep in their subconscious mind that is holding them back from everything they want.
The good news is that with Rapid Transformational Therapy, freedom to live the life of their dreams is absolutely within reach.
Do you recognise yourself in the secret above? Is there an element of you in there? What are you doing about getting out of that situation?
Why not book in for a free consultation call with me, and let’s talk about moving you on.
(I won’t tell anyone!)